FLR

We had an interesting day last Saturday. My wonderful wife has chatted on line with a women she met on line that also is in an FLR. They have become "cyber" friends. This couple lives a good distance from us but as fate happens they came to visit us last week. We met them for dinner in the city. It is always interesting to meet people who you have known only from on line. We hit it off and had a great dinner. As the wine flowed freely our FLR's were discussed in detail. We had met them for dinner at their hotel and it progressed naturally after dinner to go to their hotel room for a "nightcap". In the room the my wife's new friend asked if she could pull my wife's husband's pants and underpants down and spank his bare bottom, and perhaps both of us "boys" needed a spanking. In no time we both were bent over the bed, all our dignity erased as our pants and underpants at our ankles and paddles applied vigorously. Followed by a little corner time. As we took our leave and I sat very carefully on the way home. But the night wasn't over. Before sleep the strap-on was on and a good pegging session. It had been a while that I had ridden the big dick.

Time goes by fast. I am still being reminded that I don't post as often as she would like. For the most part though life is good. I am content being in the position that I am in. Married to a strong woman who gives me pretty consistent reminders. I am semi retired and once in a while I am called back to my former work to lend assistance. There, I am in charge and accomplished and respected. But back to retirement. I am subservient and take direction from her, and there are consequences when I do not follow direction, or disobey. Her business that she inherited from her father and has run a number of years, (the auto parts store and delivery to service shops, dealerships, etc) keeps her very busy and she runs that with authority. While the four men that work there are paid well and treated well and they have all been there for a good while, they are kept in tow. They aren't spanked but sometimes wonder if it would be better for them if they were. I work there to help out and and I am really at the bottom of the totem pole. The men there know that when I "screw up" things happen. And in fact the all kid me about it and in a way they emphasize with me. They know and a few have seen me getting spanked for a mistake. There is a cane in her office that has been used more than once with me bent over the desk with my bare bottom as a good target. I admit that it excites me to live this life but during the caning, spanking, paddling I change my mine quick and it is real punishment. 

As I sit here this morning my bottom is very sore. Yesterday I made a careless mistake at the store that the customer complained. It happened because I had not listened carefully to the instructions.I have a problem with that sometimes. Quite often I am spanked at the store but yesterday I was told that when we got home last evening she would "deal" with me. And that she did. Upon getting home I was told to go to the den and strip completely and position myself over the arm of the soda. She came in the room with several implements and proceeded to use them all. I don't know how many I got but is was the hardest and longest spanking I had gotten in a long while. And when I thought it was over, she proceeded to do the punishment that I hate the most. (Figging) She keeps a plug of ginger root at the ready, all peeled, soaking in water in the frig. That came out and no lubricate other than the water is was soaking in, was inserted deftly and completely up my hole. I was put into panties and bra and sent to he kitchen to make dinner with ginger plug. I don't know how many of you have experienced being figged but the burning does not start immediately but builds up over time. Forty five minutes it was there and lord help me if I removed it without being told I could. It was not a comfortable dinner for me, my bottom was sore and my asshole was burning. And when the root is removed it takes a while to subside. (Oh, and by the way dear, don't forget to put ginger root on your shopping list. Make sure you buy a big one, you know what it will be used for.) After dinner we did have some cuddle time so she could comfort me. Before bed she decided that my crotch needed to be shaved again and maybe a few days in chastity will help keep me focused.

A New Year

Beautiful Wife "BW" and I had a very nice Christmas season and New Year's eve. The start of the New Year is always a good time to think about ways to make one's life better and to either quit habits or start good ones. Yesterday we had a sit down meeting to talk about our lives, our hopes, our dreams and is there a way to make them better. This was not planning in a fashion but proceeded naturally. I have been very happy in my female led relationship. One thing I like about the blog is that I can tell it like it is and there are people out there who understand. I won't begin to tell you all we talked about but we were very honest with each other. Truthfully for me I support all about our relationship although I have been very embarrassed some times when my punishment has been a bit public. A few weeks ago at the store you may remember I got the cane because I used poor judgement in a parking space. She did not close the office door as she caned my bare bottom. She responded that was too bad, I should have thought of that. And the three other men at the store are well aware that I am spanked and caned. That part is true although one of them, Jeff enjoys seeing my bottom spanked more than I would like. I didn't expect things in that department to change much but I appreciated the opportunity to speak my piece.

Then, I got to hear what she is thinking. She thinks that if too much time goes by without me being corrected I "forget" and my behavior slips. She named a few incidents in the past month where I was disrespectful to her or to someone else. She feels that I get into a "superior" mode from time to time that no one finds attractive. To be honest I can get caught up that way. So we will continue to work on it.

When our discussion ended she said that we might just as well start my "reminders". I didn't quite know what my "reminders" would be. I was ordered to draw a hot bath and soak in the tub and stay there until she came up. So I did, and of course I was both a little excited and a little apprehensive of what she had in mind. After a while she came in the bathroom with shaving cream and a razor. She said that since I acted like a spoiled boy sometimes that I would look like a boy when she was done. I was ordered out of the tub and in a chair with legs spread and my pubic hair was thoroughly shaved. My pubic region is shaved clean, no hair on my penis, my balls, my taint (love that word) and my bottom hole. Then my old friend the chastity device was locked on because I haven't been able to keep my hands off. Then a big thick diaper and rubber pants. And when I go to work at the store I will be diapered.

Today was my first day back delivering auto parts at the store. I am in very thick diaper and I waddle when I walk. Not to mention I am not allowed to change it myself. Fortunately I have not had to do anything serious. (yet that is). I have peed in it. I guess I will get used to it, with the big diaper under my uniform pants it makes my already big behind even bigger.

Happy New Year!

Getting back in track

Life can often pass by and you are so busy with day to day activities that you hardly notice how much time has passed. That is the case with me. I have not written for a while so here I am back. For the most part I have been behaving but of course continue to do my chores and accept correction as needed. The past week I did something very stupid and was taken down a peg or two.

I work part time for my wife as a delivery driver for her business. This week I had a delivery in the city and as usual parking is at a premium. I parked where I should not have after the delivery was complete and went to buy my lunch. Who knew that the city is on a crack down of parking violators and the van was towed to the Police compound. I had to go to the Police station, pay a $150 towing fee and a $300 fine. That was bad enough but had to go back and tell beautiful wife that. She was not happy. She dealt with my punishment immediately. Pants down, bottom bared and bent over the desk. Then the ever handy cane was applied to my sorry behind. The guys at the front of the store knew that I was being caned and one long time employee always has an errand at the back of the store to see me being disciplined. Now, a few days later I can still feel the sting.

Re-Training

I have been in a FLR for a while now and one would think that I would be used to it and its requirements. For the majority of the time I think that I pretty much behave well as a good behaved submissive who knows that there are consequences when stepping out of line. Our home life goes fairly smoothly when I am focused and at home doing my chores and serving my beautiful wife. "BW". I have been partially retired for a few years with a little time spent as a consultant to my former company and working as needed at my wife's auto parts retail business. I am the go-for and grunt worker, everyone knows that and also know that the cane is BW's office is there for a reason. The rest of the time I am taking care of our home. BW has high standards for housekeeping and I keep myself busy to maintain those standards. In early March, I was called to my former job to pick up that slack from an employee who had to be out for an extensive period due to an illness. It was working full time and very busy for me. Needless to say my duties at home went in a tail spin. To keep up the house I hired a lady to come and clean and tried to give BW a hand at the store on a Saturday or two.  I am happy that this employee is now back at work and healthy and I am back to my status as of the first of this month. Well, as you can expect I developed some bad habits and last week BW has ramped up my re-training regiment. BW had let the housekeeper go. She didn't work out and now that I am back at home it is my responsibility. The first few days at home I did some cleaning and organizing. On the second evening BW brought to my attention a few jobs on the list that had not been done and a few that were not done to her satisfaction and I would have to do them after dinner while she was home to supervise me. I was ordered to the bedroom, told to strip off my clothes and take my punishment position over the side of the bed with my bottom in the air and legs spread open and wait for her. I don't know about other submissives but this position always gets me thinking as I am exposed and showing my most vulnerable parts. After what seemed like an eternity I heard her footsteps on the stairs and she came into the room with a small basin of water with something in it. Unfortunately it was a plug of fresh ginger root peeled and shaped like a dildo. I absolutely hate being figged. She told me that she needed to get my attention and get me back on tract. I would much rather be spanked hard than the figging but the figging was going to happen. Soon I felt my anus being wettened and probed and that ginger root pressed on the outer rim of my hole. She is an expert in giving just the right amount of pressure and letting the anus get used to something coming its way. After a few moments I felt my anus opening and soon the ginger root was inserted fully and properly up my ass. If you have never been figged, the sting does not happen immediately but builds up over time. I thought that I would be spanked but instead was put in my frilly panties, bra and maid outlet. and put to work. The first few minutes were not too bad but soon my ass hole was on fire. But no dice I had work to do. The problem could be controlled it you do move around too much. You certainly don't want to clench your ass cheeks together. However doing my cleaning and moving how I had do set off a lot of burn. After what seems a long time BW took pity on me and  lifted my skirt and pulled down my panties and removed the offending root. And taking it out is also not fun. BW said that since I was in discomfort six stokes with the cane should be not hard to take. Well I don't know if I agree with that statement, because my bottom was  burning when she was done.

Locked up

Well, a few days after my punishment from spending money that was not authorized I still felt the sting on my behind. A friend of beautiful wife's (BW) stopped in tonight. She actually lives a fair distance away and is spending the night. She knows about our FLR and what the rules are in our house.  After dinner I cleared the table and was getting ready to clean up when I was invited to join the girls in the living room. W hen I came in the room BW said that I needed to show her friend my chastity cage. I opened the front of my pants and opened the fly in my tighty whities to show the cage. The friend asked BW if I could strip completely in order for her to see. BW said,, "strip down" so soon I was naked and being inspected. The friend had just heard the story about the events of a few nights earlier. She asked BW how many strikes I took. BW really didn't know she just goes by the situation. So friend said that she always counts and did BW want her to demonstrate. Well I certainly didn't look forward to that as my bottom was still smarting. But BW said yes and what implement would she like to use. Friend said, "I think a hairbrush will do nicely and I happen to have one in my purse". She pulled a very mean looking hair brush with a hard wooden back. I hadn't seen one of those since my childhood. She ordered me over her knee and said that I would count and she would count so that after the spanking was over we would compare the number and if we had the same number than it would be over but if not it would be repeated. Now there was a time in my life that I never would expect to be over the lap of a friend of my wife's naked with the position assumed. Certainly it wouldn't with my first wife. Anyway the first strike smacked my poor sore behind and there was no warm up. The friend (actually her name is Arlene) gave me a rapid fire spanking and I lost count it was so fast. So guessed 30, no it was 25. So a repeat. Now 30 no 32. Repeat, now 35, no 33. Repeat Now 20, yes 20 spanking over. It possibly was one of the hardest spankings that I have ever received and you know that I am regularly spanked. I didn't cry, close though, it hurt. Spanking over I started to put my clothes back on. BW said oh no, you will be doing the dishes in a pair of frilly panties that naughty girls and boys have to wear.

Unauthorized purchases

Beautiful wife "BW" and I read an update from Strict Julie yesterday that speaks to the "correction" to David for spending money without permission. BW said to me, "Isn't that interesting, didn't we have a very similar situation? Well of course I tried to downplay that, (well maybe the situation was similar), $799 for a new tv set. And it was not sanctioned. Long story about the TV which I won't subject you to. End result, new TV no pre-authorization. BW said that Julie knows how to keep her man in tow and I clearly needed reminding of exactly who is in charge. BW does not normally require me to shave but since this offense was not a very grown up thing to do I was told that I was losing my bush. Cock, balls and butt crack and hole were shaved closely. After shaving I was to report to BW for her approval that I looked like the immature boy that I must be. So I did and she had me apply baby oil to my cock, balls and butt hole and rub over my butt. Then it was over spanking bench and implements were chosen. I was spanked with paddle, hair brush and razor strop. The heat was intense especially with the baby oil. My bottom burned and even though I signed up for this type of relationship, I was seriously questioning my dedication during this spanking. After the spanking was over I did one hour of corner time, actually over a kitchen counter so that my bare bottom was on display. After the hour when I thought I was going to be released she put a nice big glob of Crisco on and in my butt hole and then the big dildo. Like David it was not a nice gentle getting used to it but a quick shove that took my breath away as its fullness entered my very private crevice. In and out and in and out and I felt my hole widen and stretch as its mass was inserted. Then it came out and BW kindly took a towel and cleaned a bit of Crisco off and then the butt plug was inserted for the evening. Then sent upstairs to retrieve my chasity cage that was fit on and locked. Don't know when the cage will be unlocked.

A Whole New Year

Here we in the second week of a new year. Business at the auto parts store remains busy. Actually the slower months are during the holidays. Guess not many people are interested in giving auto parts for Christmas. We did a few late nights of inventory which is always a pain in the ass job. But beautiful tries to make it as painless as possible and she bought everyone pizza for dinner one late night. One of the employees at the store is beautiful wife's cousin. He has worked there all of his working life and he is fully aware of consequences that I might face should there be a problem or mistake. The other three guys are oblivious.  Whether or not cousin has spilled the beans is hard to tell but the other men don't act like they know what is up.  Since my work days at my long time job have calmed down considerably, BW feels that she needs help at work and it keeps my mind occupied. I am the gofer. The delivery boy, the one who cleans the toilet, sweeps the floor and keeps the lunch room neat. I enjoy it and it is nice to be close to BW. But the cane is kept behind one of the file cabinets in her office and I have been bare bottomed over her desk for infractions. Yesterday was not a good day for me. I was delivering auto parts to customers (auto repair shops) and I delivered the wrong part. The guy was not too happy about it as he had a job to get done. After he called and told beautiful wife about it I immediately went and got the part and delivered it to him. Oops, you guessed it, still wrong. Beautiful wife had told me what to bring but in my mind I thought I knew what he wanted so did not listen carefully enough. Well he called and blasted BW. She had to sooth his feathers, get one of the guys to deliver the right part (I was still out with the delivery van) and offer him a discount, apologize and eat crow. I knew something was up when I got back to the store about a half hour before closing. After closing everyone except cousin, BW and me left. BW told me to go fetch the cane, take off all my clothes and present myself to her at a workbench in the back of the store. I reminded her that cousin was there but she did not have any sympathy for that. So humbled, I stripped brought her the cane and got into the humiliating position of nose down, bare bottom up. And the stokes began and they stung. Of course cousin came in and he enjoyed seeing me punished. Apparently he annoyed BW and he was ordered to bare his bottom for a few strokes. After few he was wishing he had left with the others. His was no where near the intensity that mine was but we both had very tender behinds. If nothing else, I think that he will definitely rethink telling anyone our secret as his might get out. I do have to say, as evil as it is, that I enjoyed seeing cousin's bottom getting whipped.

Humbler

Well here we are after Christmas as time marches on. I love Christmas and always enjoy it but relieved when it is past. Have tried to be helpful as far as Christmas preparations go and beautiful wife "BW" and I have had some good time together. We have had some good family time and good alone time. I have been helping at the store and as usual I have to remember that I am one of the rank and file without a say in policy. Sometimes that is a lesson that I forget.Often the cane applied across my bare bottom reminds me of my place. I knew yesterday that there would be dissussion regarding my work that day. So arriving home fully expecting a spanking and knowing that I had asked for it I not surprised to get the order to get up to the bedroom, take off my pants and panties and report to the den in position. Position is on knees bent over forward, nose to the floor and bottom in the air. In the position I waited for over twenty minutes. That is a very humbling position to be in. I heard "bw" looking in the toy drawer and then she appeared with the hansen humbler in hand that had not been used for a while and the locking iron wrist locks that that hold hands rigidly in place and for me causes my balance to be off and the rigid iron leg irons. Legs locked securely and hands locked. The humbler locked in place  I was immobile. In that position I got my lecture about not "taking" over at her business and I am one of the rank and file and not a boss to other people that work there. In fact I am low man on the totem pole so I take direction from them.  I don't like the humbler at all and my balls locked tightly is too much of a convenient target. She brought out a small "spanker" and slapped my balls several times which got my attention. She left the room and I thought that she was getting something to spank me with but she came back with an item in wax paper. As she pulled it out I saw that it was a big piece of ginger root shaped like a butt plug. I hate being figged. I must have screwed up big time as this is real punishment. There was nothing I could do as I was immobile but to endure the ordeal as the ginger was pushed up and deep in my anus. I can tell you that the natural reaction is to clench the buttocks but that is a big mistake, I know. It seemed like an eternity but my anus was burning and I begging for mercy and she took it out. The taking it out was even worst as  the sting got more intense. I got unlocked and the first thing I did was immerse my bottom in cold water. It helped a little but today still feeling the effects and my morning bowel movement was painful. So that is my Happy New Year Story.

Hump day or attention to the hump?

This week is flying by. Since I have some time, I am "helping" out at beautiful wife's (BW) auto parts store. When I say "helping" I mean I am the grunt. Delivery, stock room cleaner, cleaning the rest rooms. I hope I am helping. After running a business with high stress, this is a nice change to be one of the grunts. Although BW is my boss. This morning while getting dressed she told to wear a jock strap instead of undershorts. So dressed in a jock and in my "workingman's uniform" off to work we go. About an hour ago she came me and told me she liked the way my bottom looked in my pants with the jock underneath and to come into her office. She brought me in the office, pulled down my pants had me bend over a chair with my nose to the chair seat and my bottom high in the air. In back of a filing cabinet she pulled out a cane and went to town on my bottom. Man it hurt and an hour later is still burning. Two guys were at the front counter working, I imagine they know what happened as it did have a distinctive sound and the office door isn't too sound proof. Now off to make deliveries, I won't be sitting very comfortably.

Pegging

One aspect that the beautiful wife enjoys is the pegging process. That serves to remind me of my position in the marriage. It has evolved over the past few years. When Don was around BW was hoping that Don would mount me and do the deed. To her disappointment that never happened. She does like the idea of a cuckold husband. But she has a very good strap on that gets the job done. I knew this afternoon I was going to be be pegged with the appearance of the enema bag. The procedure is a thorough enema before hand. A couple of complete rinses to clean me out. There is something very humbling about BW administering an complete enema. We use a 2 quart enema bag and also me eliminating without any provision for privacy. And next over and rump up for the pegging. It was a complete penetration and BW is satisfied that her statement was made. Now back in panties and bra to make dinner.

Back in the Saddle

It is hard to believe that it has been over a year since my last post. I don't know where the time has gone or why I haven't posted in so long. I guess it is life. I have been working a lot more this year than I had been due to a few issues with my company. Things have gone well and I can say that I should be having some more time.   Well to catch up.

We played with Don until last spring when he moved out of state. He is in Florida and we still communicate with him. Beautiful wife is still working and my household responsibilities are the same. And spankings are administered went things do not get done or not done correctly. Many couples into spanking have playful or "fun" spankings. In my FLR, a spanking is punishment and correction.

So you know, I mentioned to BW that I haven't blogged in a while and she gave me orders to resume and do it right after a spanking for being lazy. So I just got spanked and now sitting on a red sore behind.

Anyway I am back.

A night out

I got a call this morning from Beautiful Wife "BW" and she told that Don would stop by the house with a package and that we are going to a friend of Don's for dinner this evening in the city. I probably did not respond as I should have so I probably will be paying for that sometime tonight. I don't know who Don's friend is but was not worried too much about it. That is, until Don dropped out the package. It is a package of clothes that Don said was what I am wearing tonight so get ready. He offered to help me get ready and upstairs we went with the package. He told me to strip completely and do it quick. Not wanting to get in any deeper and I know the drill soon I was stripped naked. He told out of the bag an adult diaper. I asked if he was kidding, and he said, absolutely not and he was getting me in the diaper and for now, I have no toilet privileges. I hope I don't have to do anything serious. So I am in a plastic disposal diaper with a pair of plastic pants. And the clothes I have to wear are a pretty pinafore dress with bows and high heels. Don left to do some more errands and I am waiting for BW to arrive home and Don to come back as I guess I am ready as I can be for some humilation and punishment. Should be an interesting night and yes the dress is short and my diapered bottom is very visible.

And life continues

Like everyone else, life can get busy. Beautiful wife "BW" has been very busy the past few weeks with her business. I have been moderately busy and our special lifestyle has been somewhat quiet until this week. "BW" has gotten very fond of Don and of course because of that I have accepted what happens. Actually Don is a nice guy. "BW" is excited  because he is a man's man and is very gifted in building and fixing things. The total opposite of myself. Don and "BW" have decided that I am to be in chastity whenever we are not together (if practical). I have gotten used to chastity on a normal day to day basis but during our play time it is a big challenge. Earlier this week I received a call from "BW" who was on her way home, she said that Don was coming to dinner and for me to cook dinner and for me to be in the frilly pink panties and nothing else. I had no more than hung up the phone with her when Don called with the same instructions and also the news that he was unhappy about a few things I said and we would have a discussion later after they were both there. Don arrived first and he came into the house carrying a large box. I was busy getting dinner ready (I was in the frilly pink panties as directed) but fixed Don a drink and he settled down in the den to relax. "BW" arrived and she also went into the den to relax before dinner. We sat down and ate dinner and the talk eventually got around to the fact that I had not been properly disciplined for too long. Then I was ordered to bend over the kitchen island. Don took out a leather strap, pulled my panties down so my bare bottom was exposed and proceeded to whip my bottom. It really hurt. "BW" couldn't resist trying the strap and laying on several additional hard strokes. My rump was thoroughly toasted and in no uncertain terms, hurt! After the spanking, I was encouraged when Don took out the key to the chastity device and removed it I immediately "sprang" to action but then "BW" came out with the ball parachute and weights. Soon the parachute was in place and experiments were made about how much weight should be applied. I was then marched upstairs with the swinging ball weights swinging and hanging to spend some quality "corner" time. If I fussed or complained I got a smack with the wooden paddle on my already sore bottom for my trouble. It was a challenge to stand in the corner with the weight pulling and stretching my balls. After what I thought was a long while "BW" took pity on me and removed the weights and had me lay over the edge of the bed to service her. Don still had a few tricks in his box such as the big butt plug that he demonstrated his great patience to have it properly placed right where it was intended. And if you are interested, the chastity was once more locked in place. I will leave the rest of the evening to your vivid imaginations.

Evolution

I don't think that I ever expected my FLR to go in this direction but as beautiful wife BW  says, we are in an FLR and the decision is not yours. As mentioned in previous posts, Don has become a part of this relationship and I have been tested by that. It has been a couple of weeks since the handyman (Don) saw BW give me a spanking and while doing some more work here, he and BW talked a lot about FLRs and what our roles are. I was a little worried about my relationship but I am beginning to accept that this is something to enhance it, not take away. So in case you are wondering, I am now a cuckhold. I am locked in chastity all of the time. The last week have not be allowed to stroke, touch or masturbate. I wear supple nipple cups for an hour twice a day to enhance my man's breasts. I am wearing a bra and panties for underwear. Don and BW decide if I need punishment, and I now also am spanked by Don which is certainly punishment. Don likes to watch BW use her strap on and her bought a larger dildo to use and I am in training to get its entirely up where it goes. Last night, BW and Don had sex.I had to watch. I thought I would be jealous but if I had been let out of chastity I would have been excited. And finally the best part was the order to clean up Bw afterwards by going down on her as I do so well. The humiliation set in when I was ordered to clean Don up. He tells me I better get better as that. I don't consider myself to have homosexual tendencies but BW tells me that I will be a good "cocksucker". There was incentive as Don also had a paddle in hand to encourage a good job. I join the cuckhold ranks. Harry who commented on my last post was right.

Pushing my limits

I was given the assignment to add the following into the blog today. This follows the story of last week's spanking while the handyman was in the house. The handyman was very interested and amused that, a grown respectable guy gets his pants lowered and spanked by his wife. On Friday he was back to complete the floor job and the conversation regarding my situation was very relaxed between the beautiful wife and him. He had several questions about positions and so forth. He offered that if she needed help to keep me in line to let him know, he probably could make me mind. Over the weekend, I have been hearing a lot about this and that she is seriously thinking of taking him up on it. A comment on the blog by Ms. Julie gave her ideas confirmation. So I have been put on notice to be on my best behavior as Don,(the handyman) has a strap that he offered to introduce to my bottom. The "BW" wants to "spice up things" and thinks that watching a man spank me and my ultimate shame and embarassment would be fun to see. Needless to say I am walking a fine line. She found a few more jobs for him to do around the house so while he is here, I am on guard.

Properly Punished

In my FLR I work hard to behave in an acceptable manner and to understand my position. I need to be reminded once in a while (ok, quite often). It is a great relationship and I have asked for it and I need it. There are many men who simply do not understand that an FLR is wonderfully liberating. I have always enjoyed spanking activity, but in a former relationship that was not a possibility. In this relationship (we have been married 7 years), spanking is used as needed. Sometimes an erotic spanking but mostly it is punishment and while the thought of it gets me going that actual event is another story. The beautiful wife has talking about how our lifestyle should not be a "secret" that we practice behind closed doors. No we will not be running down the Main Street announcing it but it is what it is. She has been mentioning to me that she thinks that I would remember better and correct my actions better if the punishment were immediately administered. Of course, this is not always easy. Last weekend we had a handyman in the house putting in a new floor in one of our bathrooms. We were downstairs, (he was up stairs working) and we both kind of "forgot" he was in the house. And I stepped out of line and was ordered in a very loud voice to march upstairs to our bedroom and get the strap out and wait, which I did. She was very upset with me. Very quickly she came up to the bedroom and yacked down my pants and underpants, turned up my bottom and strapped me. It hurt and I was kicking up a storm when we noticed that we had an audience. I was mortified, but the beautiful wife decided "Oh well, can't worry about that now and I have husband who needs a spanking." After the spanking and I am sure my face was as red as my ass, I heard beautiful wife say to the handyman "Sorry you had to see that, but my husband should know better because he knows what happens if he acts out." I tried to put myself together the best I could and quickly went downstairs. At the end of the day as the handyman asked me to come up to look at the job and ask a few questions about some other work we wanted done, he asked me with a grin if I could sit down. I said, "Well not too well." He laughed and said that judging by what he saw, I was properly punished. I don't know how many of this friends he told, but he is coming back on Friday to complete another project.

Driving Home a Point!

Well, I have been taken to task for not posting on the blog as often as she expects. I plead that we have done a fair amount of traveling, visiting with family, etc. hence the reason that I have been quiet. Well, maybe not completely. We have been at the beach and to tell the truth I have a habit of looking at the women. Because of that I am in chasity, locked up securely. It is very challenging to wear a speedo bathing suit while locked in a CB6000. One thing that can be said is that it makes my endowment stand out. We arrived at home yesterday and the Beautiful Wife is taking another week off from work which as she says is good so that she can monitor me closer. We were hardly in the door when I got the lecture about looking at girls on the beach (why I could be their grandfather dirty old man?) Well yes, I am older, not dead, and I am not their grandfather. For that she exercised the hair brush and bath brush on my bare behind and then sent me up to the bedroom to get in position. In position means over a pillow with my butt up and open for her strap on. It has been a while but with perserverance and determination it got driven home. Hench my title, Driving home a point? Today, one day later, I promised I would post in between some chores she gave me so here it is. I am still in chastity and wearing panties. The strap on now has the name of Bully Billy, this morning I got woken up and required to suck on Bully Billy's stick which soon found its way home again. Two times in two days my bottom opened up easier today, must be getting used to my bitch status.

So who is in charge?

 We had a very busy long weekend and a great 4th of July holiday. We entertained family and friends and it was good to see and visit with them. We had guests from the 4th through Friday afternoon. That is the funny thing about company, it is wonderful to have them come and equally nice when they leave. As you can imagine there were a lot of chores that needed to be done. Beautiful wife "BW" said that she would help me by stripping the beds and I would need to get the kitchen cleaned up, dishes washed, things put back together etc. Since it was getting late on Friday I promised to get to the kitchen chores first thing on Saturday morning.  On Saturday morning, I woke up very early and I thought that I would go to the 24hr gym that I use, get my workout in and then come back and tackle the kitchen all before "BW" gets up. That seemed like a good idea until I got back at 7 am and "BW" was already up and not too happy that I hadn't cleaned up the kitchen first. To tell you the truth I was surprised that she was so unhappy about and voiced my opinion on the matter which didn't help me much. It happened very fast but I soon found myself with my gym shorts at my knees, my jock still on and my bare bottom very accessable. My bottom got acquainted with the paddle. It was not the hardest or most painful spanking that I have gotton but I was glad when it was over. The next few hours, dressed in a pair of panties to remind me of my place I cleaned up the kitchen and if I say so myself it looked great when I was finished.

In the afternoon, "BW" and I went car shopping. I know that I have mentioned previously that we are in complete agreement and very comfortable with our FLR. Well, things at the car dealer didn't go very well as the saleman kept talking over her to me. I tried to help by reminding him that I was not the one buying the car, she was, so talk to her. He didn't get it, he kept calling her the "the little lady" and was she sure that the particular model she picked out was the one she wanted and would I let her have the money for it. Yikes!!! Needless to say, she didn't buy that car and I sat in silence as she ranted about it on the way home. I hoped I would not get another spanking just because I am the same gender as the car saleman. And, she didn't take out her frustrations on me, which was good as I was still sporting some tenderness for the kitchen incident.

Time to be Grounded

I hope all Fathers out there had a good Father's day. I had a great day, a visit from one of my children and phone calls for the two children who are scattered far from me. One on the West Coast and one deep in the heart of Texas. Beautiful Wife "BW" also gave me a nice card and a gift of two new rose bushes even thought I am not her father nor is she the mother of my children.

This morning at breakfast it was noted that I had not contributed anything new to my blog since mid-May and it was suggested that my laziness would be corrected after breakfast. My previous post was on May 17th and as it is now June 18th is has been 32 days since my last post and so she thought that one smack per day per instrument in the "special drawer" would be appropriate. I was soon over her knee with bottom bared in position for re-acquaintance with several paddles and straps. I now know that in the "special drawer" are 17 different implements. So 17X32= 544 smacks. Some were not that hard and some quite hard. As usual I needed it and I feel great with that feeling of a very warm well spanked bottom.

I always appreciate all your comments as those of us in FLRs do understand the total picture.