Back in the Saddle

It is hard to believe that it has been over a year since my last post. I don't know where the time has gone or why I haven't posted in so long. I guess it is life. I have been working a lot more this year than I had been due to a few issues with my company. Things have gone well and I can say that I should be having some more time.   Well to catch up.

We played with Don until last spring when he moved out of state. He is in Florida and we still communicate with him. Beautiful wife is still working and my household responsibilities are the same. And spankings are administered went things do not get done or not done correctly. Many couples into spanking have playful or "fun" spankings. In my FLR, a spanking is punishment and correction.

So you know, I mentioned to BW that I haven't blogged in a while and she gave me orders to resume and do it right after a spanking for being lazy. So I just got spanked and now sitting on a red sore behind.

Anyway I am back.

A night out

I got a call this morning from Beautiful Wife "BW" and she told that Don would stop by the house with a package and that we are going to a friend of Don's for dinner this evening in the city. I probably did not respond as I should have so I probably will be paying for that sometime tonight. I don't know who Don's friend is but was not worried too much about it. That is, until Don dropped out the package. It is a package of clothes that Don said was what I am wearing tonight so get ready. He offered to help me get ready and upstairs we went with the package. He told me to strip completely and do it quick. Not wanting to get in any deeper and I know the drill soon I was stripped naked. He told out of the bag an adult diaper. I asked if he was kidding, and he said, absolutely not and he was getting me in the diaper and for now, I have no toilet privileges. I hope I don't have to do anything serious. So I am in a plastic disposal diaper with a pair of plastic pants. And the clothes I have to wear are a pretty pinafore dress with bows and high heels. Don left to do some more errands and I am waiting for BW to arrive home and Don to come back as I guess I am ready as I can be for some humilation and punishment. Should be an interesting night and yes the dress is short and my diapered bottom is very visible.

And life continues

Like everyone else, life can get busy. Beautiful wife "BW" has been very busy the past few weeks with her business. I have been moderately busy and our special lifestyle has been somewhat quiet until this week. "BW" has gotten very fond of Don and of course because of that I have accepted what happens. Actually Don is a nice guy. "BW" is excited  because he is a man's man and is very gifted in building and fixing things. The total opposite of myself. Don and "BW" have decided that I am to be in chastity whenever we are not together (if practical). I have gotten used to chastity on a normal day to day basis but during our play time it is a big challenge. Earlier this week I received a call from "BW" who was on her way home, she said that Don was coming to dinner and for me to cook dinner and for me to be in the frilly pink panties and nothing else. I had no more than hung up the phone with her when Don called with the same instructions and also the news that he was unhappy about a few things I said and we would have a discussion later after they were both there. Don arrived first and he came into the house carrying a large box. I was busy getting dinner ready (I was in the frilly pink panties as directed) but fixed Don a drink and he settled down in the den to relax. "BW" arrived and she also went into the den to relax before dinner. We sat down and ate dinner and the talk eventually got around to the fact that I had not been properly disciplined for too long. Then I was ordered to bend over the kitchen island. Don took out a leather strap, pulled my panties down so my bare bottom was exposed and proceeded to whip my bottom. It really hurt. "BW" couldn't resist trying the strap and laying on several additional hard strokes. My rump was thoroughly toasted and in no uncertain terms, hurt! After the spanking, I was encouraged when Don took out the key to the chastity device and removed it I immediately "sprang" to action but then "BW" came out with the ball parachute and weights. Soon the parachute was in place and experiments were made about how much weight should be applied. I was then marched upstairs with the swinging ball weights swinging and hanging to spend some quality "corner" time. If I fussed or complained I got a smack with the wooden paddle on my already sore bottom for my trouble. It was a challenge to stand in the corner with the weight pulling and stretching my balls. After what I thought was a long while "BW" took pity on me and removed the weights and had me lay over the edge of the bed to service her. Don still had a few tricks in his box such as the big butt plug that he demonstrated his great patience to have it properly placed right where it was intended. And if you are interested, the chastity was once more locked in place. I will leave the rest of the evening to your vivid imaginations.

Evolution

I don't think that I ever expected my FLR to go in this direction but as beautiful wife BW  says, we are in an FLR and the decision is not yours. As mentioned in previous posts, Don has become a part of this relationship and I have been tested by that. It has been a couple of weeks since the handyman (Don) saw BW give me a spanking and while doing some more work here, he and BW talked a lot about FLRs and what our roles are. I was a little worried about my relationship but I am beginning to accept that this is something to enhance it, not take away. So in case you are wondering, I am now a cuckhold. I am locked in chastity all of the time. The last week have not be allowed to stroke, touch or masturbate. I wear supple nipple cups for an hour twice a day to enhance my man's breasts. I am wearing a bra and panties for underwear. Don and BW decide if I need punishment, and I now also am spanked by Don which is certainly punishment. Don likes to watch BW use her strap on and her bought a larger dildo to use and I am in training to get its entirely up where it goes. Last night, BW and Don had sex.I had to watch. I thought I would be jealous but if I had been let out of chastity I would have been excited. And finally the best part was the order to clean up Bw afterwards by going down on her as I do so well. The humiliation set in when I was ordered to clean Don up. He tells me I better get better as that. I don't consider myself to have homosexual tendencies but BW tells me that I will be a good "cocksucker". There was incentive as Don also had a paddle in hand to encourage a good job. I join the cuckhold ranks. Harry who commented on my last post was right.

Pushing my limits

I was given the assignment to add the following into the blog today. This follows the story of last week's spanking while the handyman was in the house. The handyman was very interested and amused that, a grown respectable guy gets his pants lowered and spanked by his wife. On Friday he was back to complete the floor job and the conversation regarding my situation was very relaxed between the beautiful wife and him. He had several questions about positions and so forth. He offered that if she needed help to keep me in line to let him know, he probably could make me mind. Over the weekend, I have been hearing a lot about this and that she is seriously thinking of taking him up on it. A comment on the blog by Ms. Julie gave her ideas confirmation. So I have been put on notice to be on my best behavior as Don,(the handyman) has a strap that he offered to introduce to my bottom. The "BW" wants to "spice up things" and thinks that watching a man spank me and my ultimate shame and embarassment would be fun to see. Needless to say I am walking a fine line. She found a few more jobs for him to do around the house so while he is here, I am on guard.

Properly Punished

In my FLR I work hard to behave in an acceptable manner and to understand my position. I need to be reminded once in a while (ok, quite often). It is a great relationship and I have asked for it and I need it. There are many men who simply do not understand that an FLR is wonderfully liberating. I have always enjoyed spanking activity, but in a former relationship that was not a possibility. In this relationship (we have been married 7 years), spanking is used as needed. Sometimes an erotic spanking but mostly it is punishment and while the thought of it gets me going that actual event is another story. The beautiful wife has talking about how our lifestyle should not be a "secret" that we practice behind closed doors. No we will not be running down the Main Street announcing it but it is what it is. She has been mentioning to me that she thinks that I would remember better and correct my actions better if the punishment were immediately administered. Of course, this is not always easy. Last weekend we had a handyman in the house putting in a new floor in one of our bathrooms. We were downstairs, (he was up stairs working) and we both kind of "forgot" he was in the house. And I stepped out of line and was ordered in a very loud voice to march upstairs to our bedroom and get the strap out and wait, which I did. She was very upset with me. Very quickly she came up to the bedroom and yacked down my pants and underpants, turned up my bottom and strapped me. It hurt and I was kicking up a storm when we noticed that we had an audience. I was mortified, but the beautiful wife decided "Oh well, can't worry about that now and I have husband who needs a spanking." After the spanking and I am sure my face was as red as my ass, I heard beautiful wife say to the handyman "Sorry you had to see that, but my husband should know better because he knows what happens if he acts out." I tried to put myself together the best I could and quickly went downstairs. At the end of the day as the handyman asked me to come up to look at the job and ask a few questions about some other work we wanted done, he asked me with a grin if I could sit down. I said, "Well not too well." He laughed and said that judging by what he saw, I was properly punished. I don't know how many of this friends he told, but he is coming back on Friday to complete another project.

Driving Home a Point!

Well, I have been taken to task for not posting on the blog as often as she expects. I plead that we have done a fair amount of traveling, visiting with family, etc. hence the reason that I have been quiet. Well, maybe not completely. We have been at the beach and to tell the truth I have a habit of looking at the women. Because of that I am in chasity, locked up securely. It is very challenging to wear a speedo bathing suit while locked in a CB6000. One thing that can be said is that it makes my endowment stand out. We arrived at home yesterday and the Beautiful Wife is taking another week off from work which as she says is good so that she can monitor me closer. We were hardly in the door when I got the lecture about looking at girls on the beach (why I could be their grandfather dirty old man?) Well yes, I am older, not dead, and I am not their grandfather. For that she exercised the hair brush and bath brush on my bare behind and then sent me up to the bedroom to get in position. In position means over a pillow with my butt up and open for her strap on. It has been a while but with perserverance and determination it got driven home. Hench my title, Driving home a point? Today, one day later, I promised I would post in between some chores she gave me so here it is. I am still in chastity and wearing panties. The strap on now has the name of Bully Billy, this morning I got woken up and required to suck on Bully Billy's stick which soon found its way home again. Two times in two days my bottom opened up easier today, must be getting used to my bitch status.