You are not in charge

It has been a while since I updated my blog and my wife tells me that I have no excuse. So I won't try to give one. I have a wonderful close marriage and am extremely happy. And even thought some men or couples would find it very strange my household is female led. I am reminded often and I agree that sometimes even at age 56, I behave like a 14 year old brat. In this household 14 year old brats are only tolerated so long and then the brat's bare behind is in serious trouble. I am spanked often, most often playfully, no pain just a way to show affection and very often leads to something very intimate. But I also am disciplined when needed and that is not so fun. Most often my misbehavior is a result of not thinking out things thoroughly and by not thinking things out I break the rules. While we are not rich people, we are not poor people either. I have a tendency to spend money without talking it over. We have worked on that a lot and things are usually now good in that department. But a few weeks ago, I have made some purchases that I didn't not discuss or really think out for that matter. Then the credit card bill came in the mail. I was at work when I got a phone call from my wife asking me about the charges on the credit card. After a few minutes of conversation, I was like a teenager who got caught smoking his mother's cigarettes. I am at work, dressed in a nice suit, the man in charge and just been informed that when I get home I am getting a punishment spanking on my bare bottom and it will be sore for a long time. I don't know about you but the rest of the afternoon that was all I could think about. The afternoon flew by and soon I had to go home and face the music or should I say, the wooden paddle and the hair brush. I arrived home and the first thing I noticed was one of the dining room chairs in the middle of the living room. Not a good sign. My greeting was not " how are you honey?" or  "wonderful to see you", but instead I was told in a tone that one does not argue with to strip naked and put on my punishment panties and get in the corner for a while because we had to talk. I didn't do much talking I was the one going to listen. And listen I did for twenty minutes solid, I was in deep. Then over to the chair over her lap, panties pulled down and I got a hard, hard spanking. My bare bottom was on FIRE. and for good measure she kept it up. I am usually pretty stoic but I wasn't so stoic this time. And yes because I go have the mentality of a 14 year old boy I very often get erect when being spanked but that was not in the equation. So, that was the result of thoughtlessness on my part and in my household that is what happens.And literally for three days I had to think about it before I sat down.

How long has it been?

I arrived home from work as usual. I am the cook in our home and I started dinner and thought perhaps a little romanic music, low lights, some wine and cheese when the beautiful wife (the boss) got home. So it was all ready and home she came. She was pleasantly surprised and we had a wonderful time to connect after a long day (more for her than me). We were having a good conversation when she asked me how long had it been since I had gotten spanked. Oh, oh! As you know from my blog it had been about two, no, almost three weeks. That one was a serious disciplinary spanking and I felt it for a long while. She reminded me that my memory is short and sometimes I need a reminder more often than two to three weeks and because I sometimes forget who is in charge she sent me upstairs to change into the pink frilly panties that reminds me of my place. So with a tee and pink panties I finished cooking dinner. It was very good I might add, we enjoyed it, even if I was in a pair of panties and no pants. She told me to clean up the kitchen and do my chores and then come upstairs to visit her in the upstairs den. Oh, oh! again! Finished my chores and went right up to the den. She had made a list of a few things to bring to my attention. She had me lie over the arm of the sofa, pull my panties down but not off so that my bare bottom was in place. I got a lecture about behavior and how I need to ask her for guidance so that I remember my place. She had read my friend Ken's post and thought that I need to use the discipline request form that he does. Then I got a spanking. Not real hard. She spanked me with a closed hand fan that she had, just enought to warm my behind. Then I got put to bed and it was not long before she came to bed and I will let you draw your own conclusion to the scene. Now that my friends is good punishment.

The Tale of the Growing Book Pile

Wow! Great a day off, chill out unwind, read a book etc. NOT!

My beautiful wife and I are both voracious readers. We love books. We have a lot of books. We are always getting more books, in fact we are accumulating books at a faster rate than we are reading them, but I digress. We have had a problem in my home with having so many books that we cannot put them anyplace neatly. All our bookshelves were filled to the gills and spilled over to the floor. It started with a pile or two and had since grown. The Mrs. suggested that we buy a few more bookshelves to try and organize our books and our home. Well, I had a great idea to go to the area building supply place and buy bookshelf kits that I would put together myself and put them up on the second floor landing and get all organized and nice. I did just that, I bought three new kits for three great new bookshelves. Yes I did! Last July. The question has been more frequent lately, "when are you going to put those bookshelves together?" and I have answered "Oh I might be able to next week".  She would say "Do you want my help?" I would reply, "No honey, I will get to it." and over the Christmas Holidays we had a few guests, my son who came to visit us mentioned to us, "Oh my God, I feel like I am in a Stephen King novel where the family gets sucked up by all the books." We laughed at the time but I don't think the lady of the house liked that comment. So fast forward to this morning........I had the day off, she had the day off....at breakfast, "Honey, let's put those shelves together today." Husband's reply " Maybe tomorrow honey".  After breakfast, made my way to computer to check emails, etc and the lady of the house went up to our bedroom, called down the stairs, "Honey would you come up here please". Husband's reply " In a minute hon", lady's response " NO NOW".  The very perceptive husband knew that perhaps he should get up there pronto!

Boy, yikes was I properly punished. Pinned firmly over her laps, bottom bared, (You all probably have seen my bottom-I changed the photo to give you all a break) and I received a good hard spanking mostly with the wooden paddle with the holes in it. She did not have much mercy, you would think that as a man in a female led househould where corporal punishment is used, I would have been more aware and paid more attention to the task at hand. I didn't.  Those of us, both my men friends and my woman friends who have our bottoms bared and spanked maybe know the feeling of that wicked sting. Big red cheeks and again that sting. I did have tears in my eyes and was acting like a eight year old boy who just got spanked by his mother.

and folks, yes, I spent the next few hours putting together the bookshelves. They look great, and we are organizing the books. But my bottom is still very sore-this was a whooper spanking and I am not going to be able to sit very comfortably for a while.

Busy, Busy, Busy

The theme of my sporadic posts of late has been how busy I have been, a busy time of year etc. And I have been busy. I am not retired yet but most of the heavy lifting is done by the junior members of my company. In the past few months, the senior member (how did that get to be me?) has had to step up to the plate to work on a few projects. For years when I was the junior member I worked many hours and perhaps if I had paid more attention to my first marriage, it would not have failed. (Well maybe it would have anyway, there were more problems than that and yes if you wonder a lot of those problems were caused by me).Anyway, my point is, my beautiful wife of five years insists that we work together and devote our time together and I love it. But of late, it is easy to slip into "the mode". with the Holidays right on us all the pressures seem to "ramp up" and instead of enjoying the season, I am as ugly as a teenage girl with her first period. Maybe I am having my period, anyway: last night after I had made a negative crack about all the Holiday upheaval, the lady of the house, (yes, she is the boss!) ordered her immature 56 year old husband upstairs to change into a T-shirt and a pair of nice frilly pink panties so he would have a visual reminder of his place. Then downstairs, the husband (me) got to finish some chores, wash the dishes, sweep the floors, water the Christmas tree and for good measure water all the houseplants and by the way bring me the cane and put it on the kitchen table and pull out one of kitchen chairs so that I have a place to sit while I cane your big bare bottom. And cane my big bare bottom she did, I got a caning that I won't forget for a while. Did I mention that I hate being caned? Much rather the paddle or belt, but that was not my choice last night. This morning as I write this, I am having a bit of an issue sitting.

 So my friends that is the latest update from me. I also want to tell you how much your blogs and your "friendship and support" has meant to both of us. Our relationship is a wonderful one since our Head of Household has been established and the person not the Head of Household (me again) has periodic reminders of that.

Merry Christmas friends. May all our backsides be merry.

Punishment Spanking

Well, I have not been very communicative lately. Work has been wild and I have had to do a fair amount of traveling. Last week gone for two days and Monday and Tuesday away. Got home tonight and was confronted by the lady of house (and the boss) about something naughty I did. (No, I am not going to tell you what it was, let's just say I was a very naughtly boy). I no sooner was in the door that I found myself with pants and underpants down over her knee staring at the floor and got a very hard paddling and spent an half hour in the corner sans pants to think about it. After corner time another session over the lap  to re-warm my bottom so I remember. Right now I am remembering, I can't sit down but I am remembering.

Busy time of year

I hope that everyone had a great Thanksgiving day. I know that we did. We had a houseful of family and friends and that makes for a good time. It seems that the past few weeks have been busier  than normal for me and the beautiful woman in my life. I am used to having some flexibility with work, now that I am the "senior" member but the past few weeks the older guy was needed. While that is not a bad thing it makes less time for me to be attentive to my beautiful wife and more likely for me to get wrapped up in my own thing. Wednesday evening when I arrived home I was reminded that I was the one who had invited several people for Thanksgiving and I hadn't done much to help get ready. So up to the bedroom I was taken for a little reminder. I soon found myself bare bottomed over her lap and after a good session and when I was feeling a nice hot sting in my bottom cheeks. I was put into panties and off I went to bake a couple of pies, vacuum a bit and other chores to get ready for the holiday. After a few hours, things were in place for the next day and herself decided that a good night talk would do a lot of good so the wooden slat that had been left over from when I built a garden trellis was put to use with me bent over the bed and my bottom (yes of course bare) in the air to be re-warmed properly for bed. God I love that woman! Hope all is well with my blog friends.

End of the Weekend

I hate to think that the weekend is ending. For me it was a short one. I had been traveling for work at the end of last week and was away from home for three nights. I have traveled for work for a while but I hate being away from home. I miss my beautiful wife's direction. Seems I neglected to do something I was supposed to (this is a recurring theme for me) and that was noted on the home front. So as my friend's wife says, I needed a maintenance spanking and a maintenance spanking I got. It was the hairbrush this time and my bottom turned a nice warm red. It was a welcome home, now behave- spanking. Thank you sweetheart I am so lucky that you care enough about me to make sure that I am in line and I understand why a good part of my afternoon was spent bare bottomed over your knee. I also want to thank all my new friends for their support and understanding.