FLR

We had an interesting day last Saturday. My wonderful wife has chatted on line with a women she met on line that also is in an FLR. They have become "cyber" friends. This couple lives a good distance from us but as fate happens they came to visit us last week. We met them for dinner in the city. It is always interesting to meet people who you have known only from on line. We hit it off and had a great dinner. As the wine flowed freely our FLR's were discussed in detail. We had met them for dinner at their hotel and it progressed naturally after dinner to go to their hotel room for a "nightcap". In the room the my wife's new friend asked if she could pull my wife's husband's pants and underpants down and spank his bare bottom, and perhaps both of us "boys" needed a spanking. In no time we both were bent over the bed, all our dignity erased as our pants and underpants at our ankles and paddles applied vigorously. Followed by a little corner time. As we took our leave and I sat very carefully on the way home. But the night wasn't over. Before sleep the strap-on was on and a good pegging session. It had been a while that I had ridden the big dick.

Time goes by fast. I am still being reminded that I don't post as often as she would like. For the most part though life is good. I am content being in the position that I am in. Married to a strong woman who gives me pretty consistent reminders. I am semi retired and once in a while I am called back to my former work to lend assistance. There, I am in charge and accomplished and respected. But back to retirement. I am subservient and take direction from her, and there are consequences when I do not follow direction, or disobey. Her business that she inherited from her father and has run a number of years, (the auto parts store and delivery to service shops, dealerships, etc) keeps her very busy and she runs that with authority. While the four men that work there are paid well and treated well and they have all been there for a good while, they are kept in tow. They aren't spanked but sometimes wonder if it would be better for them if they were. I work there to help out and and I am really at the bottom of the totem pole. The men there know that when I "screw up" things happen. And in fact the all kid me about it and in a way they emphasize with me. They know and a few have seen me getting spanked for a mistake. There is a cane in her office that has been used more than once with me bent over the desk with my bare bottom as a good target. I admit that it excites me to live this life but during the caning, spanking, paddling I change my mine quick and it is real punishment. 

As I sit here this morning my bottom is very sore. Yesterday I made a careless mistake at the store that the customer complained. It happened because I had not listened carefully to the instructions.I have a problem with that sometimes. Quite often I am spanked at the store but yesterday I was told that when we got home last evening she would "deal" with me. And that she did. Upon getting home I was told to go to the den and strip completely and position myself over the arm of the soda. She came in the room with several implements and proceeded to use them all. I don't know how many I got but is was the hardest and longest spanking I had gotten in a long while. And when I thought it was over, she proceeded to do the punishment that I hate the most. (Figging) She keeps a plug of ginger root at the ready, all peeled, soaking in water in the frig. That came out and no lubricate other than the water is was soaking in, was inserted deftly and completely up my hole. I was put into panties and bra and sent to he kitchen to make dinner with ginger plug. I don't know how many of you have experienced being figged but the burning does not start immediately but builds up over time. Forty five minutes it was there and lord help me if I removed it without being told I could. It was not a comfortable dinner for me, my bottom was sore and my asshole was burning. And when the root is removed it takes a while to subside. (Oh, and by the way dear, don't forget to put ginger root on your shopping list. Make sure you buy a big one, you know what it will be used for.) After dinner we did have some cuddle time so she could comfort me. Before bed she decided that my crotch needed to be shaved again and maybe a few days in chastity will help keep me focused.

A New Year

Beautiful Wife "BW" and I had a very nice Christmas season and New Year's eve. The start of the New Year is always a good time to think about ways to make one's life better and to either quit habits or start good ones. Yesterday we had a sit down meeting to talk about our lives, our hopes, our dreams and is there a way to make them better. This was not planning in a fashion but proceeded naturally. I have been very happy in my female led relationship. One thing I like about the blog is that I can tell it like it is and there are people out there who understand. I won't begin to tell you all we talked about but we were very honest with each other. Truthfully for me I support all about our relationship although I have been very embarrassed some times when my punishment has been a bit public. A few weeks ago at the store you may remember I got the cane because I used poor judgement in a parking space. She did not close the office door as she caned my bare bottom. She responded that was too bad, I should have thought of that. And the three other men at the store are well aware that I am spanked and caned. That part is true although one of them, Jeff enjoys seeing my bottom spanked more than I would like. I didn't expect things in that department to change much but I appreciated the opportunity to speak my piece.

Then, I got to hear what she is thinking. She thinks that if too much time goes by without me being corrected I "forget" and my behavior slips. She named a few incidents in the past month where I was disrespectful to her or to someone else. She feels that I get into a "superior" mode from time to time that no one finds attractive. To be honest I can get caught up that way. So we will continue to work on it.

When our discussion ended she said that we might just as well start my "reminders". I didn't quite know what my "reminders" would be. I was ordered to draw a hot bath and soak in the tub and stay there until she came up. So I did, and of course I was both a little excited and a little apprehensive of what she had in mind. After a while she came in the bathroom with shaving cream and a razor. She said that since I acted like a spoiled boy sometimes that I would look like a boy when she was done. I was ordered out of the tub and in a chair with legs spread and my pubic hair was thoroughly shaved. My pubic region is shaved clean, no hair on my penis, my balls, my taint (love that word) and my bottom hole. Then my old friend the chastity device was locked on because I haven't been able to keep my hands off. Then a big thick diaper and rubber pants. And when I go to work at the store I will be diapered.

Today was my first day back delivering auto parts at the store. I am in very thick diaper and I waddle when I walk. Not to mention I am not allowed to change it myself. Fortunately I have not had to do anything serious. (yet that is). I have peed in it. I guess I will get used to it, with the big diaper under my uniform pants it makes my already big behind even bigger.

Happy New Year!

Getting back in track

Life can often pass by and you are so busy with day to day activities that you hardly notice how much time has passed. That is the case with me. I have not written for a while so here I am back. For the most part I have been behaving but of course continue to do my chores and accept correction as needed. The past week I did something very stupid and was taken down a peg or two.

I work part time for my wife as a delivery driver for her business. This week I had a delivery in the city and as usual parking is at a premium. I parked where I should not have after the delivery was complete and went to buy my lunch. Who knew that the city is on a crack down of parking violators and the van was towed to the Police compound. I had to go to the Police station, pay a $150 towing fee and a $300 fine. That was bad enough but had to go back and tell beautiful wife that. She was not happy. She dealt with my punishment immediately. Pants down, bottom bared and bent over the desk. Then the ever handy cane was applied to my sorry behind. The guys at the front of the store knew that I was being caned and one long time employee always has an errand at the back of the store to see me being disciplined. Now, a few days later I can still feel the sting.

Re-Training

I have been in a FLR for a while now and one would think that I would be used to it and its requirements. For the majority of the time I think that I pretty much behave well as a good behaved submissive who knows that there are consequences when stepping out of line. Our home life goes fairly smoothly when I am focused and at home doing my chores and serving my beautiful wife. "BW". I have been partially retired for a few years with a little time spent as a consultant to my former company and working as needed at my wife's auto parts retail business. I am the go-for and grunt worker, everyone knows that and also know that the cane is BW's office is there for a reason. The rest of the time I am taking care of our home. BW has high standards for housekeeping and I keep myself busy to maintain those standards. In early March, I was called to my former job to pick up that slack from an employee who had to be out for an extensive period due to an illness. It was working full time and very busy for me. Needless to say my duties at home went in a tail spin. To keep up the house I hired a lady to come and clean and tried to give BW a hand at the store on a Saturday or two.  I am happy that this employee is now back at work and healthy and I am back to my status as of the first of this month. Well, as you can expect I developed some bad habits and last week BW has ramped up my re-training regiment. BW had let the housekeeper go. She didn't work out and now that I am back at home it is my responsibility. The first few days at home I did some cleaning and organizing. On the second evening BW brought to my attention a few jobs on the list that had not been done and a few that were not done to her satisfaction and I would have to do them after dinner while she was home to supervise me. I was ordered to the bedroom, told to strip off my clothes and take my punishment position over the side of the bed with my bottom in the air and legs spread open and wait for her. I don't know about other submissives but this position always gets me thinking as I am exposed and showing my most vulnerable parts. After what seemed like an eternity I heard her footsteps on the stairs and she came into the room with a small basin of water with something in it. Unfortunately it was a plug of fresh ginger root peeled and shaped like a dildo. I absolutely hate being figged. She told me that she needed to get my attention and get me back on tract. I would much rather be spanked hard than the figging but the figging was going to happen. Soon I felt my anus being wettened and probed and that ginger root pressed on the outer rim of my hole. She is an expert in giving just the right amount of pressure and letting the anus get used to something coming its way. After a few moments I felt my anus opening and soon the ginger root was inserted fully and properly up my ass. If you have never been figged, the sting does not happen immediately but builds up over time. I thought that I would be spanked but instead was put in my frilly panties, bra and maid outlet. and put to work. The first few minutes were not too bad but soon my ass hole was on fire. But no dice I had work to do. The problem could be controlled it you do move around too much. You certainly don't want to clench your ass cheeks together. However doing my cleaning and moving how I had do set off a lot of burn. After what seems a long time BW took pity on me and  lifted my skirt and pulled down my panties and removed the offending root. And taking it out is also not fun. BW said that since I was in discomfort six stokes with the cane should be not hard to take. Well I don't know if I agree with that statement, because my bottom was  burning when she was done.

Locked up

Well, a few days after my punishment from spending money that was not authorized I still felt the sting on my behind. A friend of beautiful wife's (BW) stopped in tonight. She actually lives a fair distance away and is spending the night. She knows about our FLR and what the rules are in our house.  After dinner I cleared the table and was getting ready to clean up when I was invited to join the girls in the living room. W hen I came in the room BW said that I needed to show her friend my chastity cage. I opened the front of my pants and opened the fly in my tighty whities to show the cage. The friend asked BW if I could strip completely in order for her to see. BW said,, "strip down" so soon I was naked and being inspected. The friend had just heard the story about the events of a few nights earlier. She asked BW how many strikes I took. BW really didn't know she just goes by the situation. So friend said that she always counts and did BW want her to demonstrate. Well I certainly didn't look forward to that as my bottom was still smarting. But BW said yes and what implement would she like to use. Friend said, "I think a hairbrush will do nicely and I happen to have one in my purse". She pulled a very mean looking hair brush with a hard wooden back. I hadn't seen one of those since my childhood. She ordered me over her knee and said that I would count and she would count so that after the spanking was over we would compare the number and if we had the same number than it would be over but if not it would be repeated. Now there was a time in my life that I never would expect to be over the lap of a friend of my wife's naked with the position assumed. Certainly it wouldn't with my first wife. Anyway the first strike smacked my poor sore behind and there was no warm up. The friend (actually her name is Arlene) gave me a rapid fire spanking and I lost count it was so fast. So guessed 30, no it was 25. So a repeat. Now 30 no 32. Repeat, now 35, no 33. Repeat Now 20, yes 20 spanking over. It possibly was one of the hardest spankings that I have ever received and you know that I am regularly spanked. I didn't cry, close though, it hurt. Spanking over I started to put my clothes back on. BW said oh no, you will be doing the dishes in a pair of frilly panties that naughty girls and boys have to wear.

Unauthorized purchases

Beautiful wife "BW" and I read an update from Strict Julie yesterday that speaks to the "correction" to David for spending money without permission. BW said to me, "Isn't that interesting, didn't we have a very similar situation? Well of course I tried to downplay that, (well maybe the situation was similar), $799 for a new tv set. And it was not sanctioned. Long story about the TV which I won't subject you to. End result, new TV no pre-authorization. BW said that Julie knows how to keep her man in tow and I clearly needed reminding of exactly who is in charge. BW does not normally require me to shave but since this offense was not a very grown up thing to do I was told that I was losing my bush. Cock, balls and butt crack and hole were shaved closely. After shaving I was to report to BW for her approval that I looked like the immature boy that I must be. So I did and she had me apply baby oil to my cock, balls and butt hole and rub over my butt. Then it was over spanking bench and implements were chosen. I was spanked with paddle, hair brush and razor strop. The heat was intense especially with the baby oil. My bottom burned and even though I signed up for this type of relationship, I was seriously questioning my dedication during this spanking. After the spanking was over I did one hour of corner time, actually over a kitchen counter so that my bare bottom was on display. After the hour when I thought I was going to be released she put a nice big glob of Crisco on and in my butt hole and then the big dildo. Like David it was not a nice gentle getting used to it but a quick shove that took my breath away as its fullness entered my very private crevice. In and out and in and out and I felt my hole widen and stretch as its mass was inserted. Then it came out and BW kindly took a towel and cleaned a bit of Crisco off and then the butt plug was inserted for the evening. Then sent upstairs to retrieve my chasity cage that was fit on and locked. Don't know when the cage will be unlocked.