What a weekend!!!

As mentioned previously we were expecting house guests and they arrived late Friday afternoon. Janet, her husband Vincent and her sister Joyce. They are fun people and we had a very nice time with them and we were somewhat naughty. Although I must tell you I was corrected several times over the weekend and I might say this more than once, my bottom is very sore. Beautiful wife "BW" made sure that we were ready for our guests. I had spent two days cleaning and making our home comfortable for all. On Friday afternoon, BW made sure that I was wearing proper panties and a nice French Maid's outfit that she bought on line. This is what I was wearing when Janet, Vinc and Joyce arrived. BW enjoyed their reaction very much, especially Joyce's because it was the first time we met her and I am sure she did not know what to expect. After modeling my outfit and showing my frilly panties and BW explaining that I was safely locked in chastity and what she thinks the benefits of that are; we offered our guests some appetizers and a cocktail. Janet was not pleased with her rum and coke as I had not used the proper brand of rum and after consultation with BW, Janet put me over her lap, pulled down my panties and hand spanked my bare bottom. If that was to be a warm up, I was in deep crap because it was very hard and it certainly got my attention. You can expect that I will remember what brand she prefers in the future. For a moment, the old conservative me was back and I was very embarrassed that I was being spanked by a woman who was not my wife and also in front of an audience. At that moment, Vincent quite happy to see get a licking and it felt like I was the only bottom in the room. That feeling was just a fleeting one as it passed with the increased heat and the redness of my behind matched that of my face. After that spanking and I pulled dinner together, I was getting excited but couldn't do much about it in my chastity. Saturday, BW and Janet went into town to shop with Vince in tow, to carry the packages. I took Joyce on a tour of the historical places in our community. She was very interested in all the ins and outs of a FLR. She is very quiet person (or so I thought). We all met up for Saturday dinner during discussions of where we should go out to eat, it was mentioned that both Vincent and I had not been exactly "perfect" all day so a spanking would be in order. Joyce asked BW if she could spank me and soon I was over Joyce's lap with pants and panties lowered and (watch out for quiet ones) she literally made my behind jump with each strike, I got a lot of them before I was allowed up. Vincent got to go over BW's lap and soon his bottom matched the red of mine and I must admit it gave me a lot of satisfaction to see him finally get what he needed. Saturday night when BW and I were in our bedroom we had a discussion about the day and BW told me that just because she had allowed the other woman to pull down my panties and spank me did not mean that she did not care about me or love me any less. That is what I love about BW. She takes care of me and knows what is good for me. To show her love I positioned myself in the "love position" and she donned her strap-on and made passionate love after which she took off the chastity and allowed me to relieve my built up tension. Maybe this chastity thing is not that bad...wow. Sunday, back in chastity, I made a big breakfast and we all had a leisurely morning with our guests, before they headed back to Connecticut. But before they left both Vincent and I were again bare bottomed and spent some quality time across each of the ladies laps. After they left, safety locked in chastity, pulled up my panties over my very sore behind, got dressed and did my chores. What a weekend, I am still having trouble sitting.

Upcoming weekend

I am at home today getting my housework done as the beautiful wife "BW" and I are expecting houseguests tomorrow night. Our FLR friends, Janet and Vincent and Janet's sister Joyce are expected. I have never met Joyce but she knows how it works with Janet and Vinc and probably also with the BW and me. It is beautiful out but my inside tasks are taking priority. The girls will be going shopping in town on Saturday and I don't know what Vinc and will be doing. Since my last post that I mentioned I was on probation, things are going well, although I am not completely released from chastity. BW does like the fact that when it comes off I am ready to go. Actually, I like that too. I have managed to avoid punishments as I have tried to be good although we have had a few erotic spankings with our lovemaking that were very nice. BW has made it clear that this weekend I had better remember that the women are in charge. She has given Janet permission to correct whatever needs to be corrected and she is also assuming that for Vincent. I am wondering how Joyce will fit into this scenerio but time will tell. Joyce has never visited the Minuteman Park and the historical sites here so BW thinks that I could be the tour guide for those. I am having a lot of fun thinking of what might happen although I have to be careful as my chastity device does not mix with an erection.

Probation

The word probation can bring a lot of visions to one's mind. Usually it refers to the status of a person convicted of a crime. Although in my case, I committed a crime in our household, but I have not read any court cases about it. Beautiful wife (BW) had a very busy day Saturday and I was in the mood all day and I hoped that Saturday night would be chance for us to make love. No such luck, BW was dead tired and we went to bed early. She dozed off but I could not escape the interest by my second head. Finally, I needed relief so off I went to the bathroom to take care of the need. (Bad move) Apparently when I got up I woke up BW and she followed me to the bathroom after a few minutes and caught me masturbating. Well, I would have if I could have had a few more minutes. BW hates that, and she ordered me back to the bedroom and I got a very "unfun" spanking and by the time she was done my bottom matched the color of the City's fire trucks. And that is appropriate because my bottom was on fire! I wasn't thinking about masturbating at that moment. Out of the bottom bureau drawer came the chastity belt that we got from "Locked in Steel" and I expect to be locked up for a while. Very embarrassing, and to quote the good woman, I am on "probation".

FLR-When will I learn?

By now, those of you that are kind enough to read my blog know that I am very happy in my FLR. I enjoy not being in charge and I enjoy some of the playful punishments and maybe to some extent, some of the not so playful punishments. But the fact is, I am a man who can be very stubborn. The beautiful wife (BW) works very hard at her family's business. An auto parts store. She is a successful business woman and I truly admire her. My line of work is totally difference as a business consultant and I have more freedom with my work schedule than she. This is why I am the housekeeper and the cook. Last Saturday, the phone rang at 6 am (always not a good sign) and it was the parts driver delivery man from the store advising BW that he could not come to work because he was sick. Now, I have helped in the past and can do the job since all I have to do is deliver the parts and not pick them out. BW said to me " I have a very busy day today and you will have to be the part deliverer." I had other plans, and I had a little tantrum about it. I knew pretty quickly that I had screwed up. I immediately got my pants and underpants lowered and a quick hard paddling on the bare bottom. Yes it got my attention. I was not given my pants back but ordered upstairs and she would "help me" get ready for work. Up the stairs I went with a bare behind. In the bedroom, I was placed in "diaper position" and secured in a bulky adult diaper and rubber pants. (I don't like that) and then told to dress in my work uniform for the store. Since I acted like a baby, I was going to be treated like one. I spent Saturday and Sunday diapered and having to ask to have my diaper changed. I will say that it was unique wondering if any one I came in contact with knew I was in a diaper and of course if I needed to wiz, I just let loose.

Checking In

As has been the case for the past several months, I have not posted to the blog as frequently as beautiful wife (BW) thinks is appropriate. We had a discussion about it and as I write this I am sitting on a very sore bottom. I have been told that if I comment about how busy I am and that is the reason for not blogging, (everyone is busy) and she will invite all who read the blog to have a crack at my behind. So I won't do that. The reason is as we discussed, I have gotten lazy, and I do not have a defense. BW did accompany me on a business trip to Florida and we did have some time to enjoy the weather and the sights. We went shopping in a local mall and stopped by the Victoria Secret store. (Actually at this point, I am not sure if it were Victoria Secret or another name, but you know the kind of store.) Looking at the lingerie, BW thought that we should pick up some new panties for the sub in the marriage. After some time of looking at various types and being asked (more than once) by the sales staff if we needed any help she finally made a decision and she said (a little louder, than I would have wished) "There you will look pretty in those panties", overheard by a young couple who had wandered closer than I was comfortable. I sure that my face was as red or nearly as red as my bottom would be later that evening. I tried to shuff it off, paid for our purchases and got out of the store. We went back to the hotel to get ready for dinner. I took a nice shower and when I got out I was called to stay naked and bend over the bed. (She had not cared for my behavior at the lingerie store) She had packed the wooden paddle with the holes in it and one of her favorites, a leather strap with a punch. She went to town and for those of you on the bottom you know what I mean when I say..yikes the heat....I got put in the new panties and we went to dinner, needless to say, I was not very comfortable sitting down. Back at the hotel I learned that she brought her strap on and used it for the purpose intended. We are now back at home and in the groove and just prior to me updating the blog a little, we had a wake-up session and I was reacquainted with a few items from her collection...Hence the reason for the sore bottom (again).

A New Year

It is the time of year that many of us look back and review the year. Did you accomplish what we wanted to? Did we reach our goals? Have we achieved what we want. This has been a relaxed week for me and Beautiful Wife (BW) and we have had a lot of time to talk after coming back from our Christmas visits. We had a good year with our FLR. We both have voiced things that we would like to work on or maybe mistakes made. Since this blog is from my perpective let me say that they are my mistakes and I still have a lot to learn. BW has pointed out to me, that even though I have been spanked for misbehavior over the past year and am reminded of my place on many occaisions, that sometimes my all "I am in charge" personality raises its ugly head. That surprised me to hear but I am trying to improve at listening and not immediately reacting. The problem that was pointed out to me is that I sometimes, as they say-"top from the bottom." BW has a fabulous memory, much better than mine and points out various instances when was the case. I couldn't say too much in my defense as she had me between a rock and a hard place. I won't bore you with what had been a two day pretty intense discussions but if this is to be a real FLR, which is what we both want, then I am going to have to work on it and continue to be corrected to have my brain re-wired. To be frank, I enjoy a nice spanking especially laid over the lap of a beautiful woman such as the BW. Like my blogfriends Ken and James, stockings, girtles, garters get me ramped. Not to say that I have not gotten several "punishment spankings" and believe me it was punishment. I recognize that I need that to stay grounded. But in the coming year we will be experimenting with different methods and I am to write about it in the blog.

This morning, I had started my day very relaxed, watching TV, snacking on left over Christmas food when at 9 am BW said that this is what we are talking about, stripped me and put me in a small pair of panties and a bra and I spent the morning cleaning the house. At 5'8" 180lbs. I am what you call a short stocky man so I must have been quite the sight with the panties straining to cover my good sized behind. The house looks very nice and I made BW a nice lunch. After lunch I thought the afternoon would be relaxing but she brought out another new purchase from Paddlewerx-the famous Hansen Humbler. So remaining chores were done by me on hands and knees very carefully as my family jewels were locked in a very vulnerabe position. If the chores were not being done correctly it was soon corrected by her new ball slapper, crawling on hands and knees with balls prominant and being slapped did not feel good and reminded me and I can honestly say that I was not topping from the bottom. Three hours in the humbler, I can say it felt good to have the "boys" released. The twenty smacks with the paddle didn't hurt that much either after that, although my bottom is a bright fire engine red. Looks like my FLR train will be serious. Have a good New Year everyone.

Pre-Holiday activity

We are leaving later today to visit relatives for Christmas. Even though our household has been "lackluster" in recent months the level has been ramped up in the past week. (That is good news) I mentioned the beautiful wife's (BW) new strap-on in my last post. It seems that from other postings she got the idea of what a good idea it would be for me to pay homage to the big black ??X!!!. So about an hour ago, BW got me stripped and on my knees and taught me what service means. And of course I was soon back to the bottoms up position to be reminded that I am on the bottom!. Lots of careful breathing and patience and soon I was filled with joy. I enjoy all my blogging friends, have a good holiday.