Driving Home a Point!

Well, I have been taken to task for not posting on the blog as often as she expects. I plead that we have done a fair amount of traveling, visiting with family, etc. hence the reason that I have been quiet. Well, maybe not completely. We have been at the beach and to tell the truth I have a habit of looking at the women. Because of that I am in chasity, locked up securely. It is very challenging to wear a speedo bathing suit while locked in a CB6000. One thing that can be said is that it makes my endowment stand out. We arrived at home yesterday and the Beautiful Wife is taking another week off from work which as she says is good so that she can monitor me closer. We were hardly in the door when I got the lecture about looking at girls on the beach (why I could be their grandfather dirty old man?) Well yes, I am older, not dead, and I am not their grandfather. For that she exercised the hair brush and bath brush on my bare behind and then sent me up to the bedroom to get in position. In position means over a pillow with my butt up and open for her strap on. It has been a while but with perserverance and determination it got driven home. Hench my title, Driving home a point? Today, one day later, I promised I would post in between some chores she gave me so here it is. I am still in chastity and wearing panties. The strap on now has the name of Bully Billy, this morning I got woken up and required to suck on Bully Billy's stick which soon found its way home again. Two times in two days my bottom opened up easier today, must be getting used to my bitch status.

So who is in charge?

 We had a very busy long weekend and a great 4th of July holiday. We entertained family and friends and it was good to see and visit with them. We had guests from the 4th through Friday afternoon. That is the funny thing about company, it is wonderful to have them come and equally nice when they leave. As you can imagine there were a lot of chores that needed to be done. Beautiful wife "BW" said that she would help me by stripping the beds and I would need to get the kitchen cleaned up, dishes washed, things put back together etc. Since it was getting late on Friday I promised to get to the kitchen chores first thing on Saturday morning.  On Saturday morning, I woke up very early and I thought that I would go to the 24hr gym that I use, get my workout in and then come back and tackle the kitchen all before "BW" gets up. That seemed like a good idea until I got back at 7 am and "BW" was already up and not too happy that I hadn't cleaned up the kitchen first. To tell you the truth I was surprised that she was so unhappy about and voiced my opinion on the matter which didn't help me much. It happened very fast but I soon found myself with my gym shorts at my knees, my jock still on and my bare bottom very accessable. My bottom got acquainted with the paddle. It was not the hardest or most painful spanking that I have gotton but I was glad when it was over. The next few hours, dressed in a pair of panties to remind me of my place I cleaned up the kitchen and if I say so myself it looked great when I was finished.

In the afternoon, "BW" and I went car shopping. I know that I have mentioned previously that we are in complete agreement and very comfortable with our FLR. Well, things at the car dealer didn't go very well as the saleman kept talking over her to me. I tried to help by reminding him that I was not the one buying the car, she was, so talk to her. He didn't get it, he kept calling her the "the little lady" and was she sure that the particular model she picked out was the one she wanted and would I let her have the money for it. Yikes!!! Needless to say, she didn't buy that car and I sat in silence as she ranted about it on the way home. I hoped I would not get another spanking just because I am the same gender as the car saleman. And, she didn't take out her frustrations on me, which was good as I was still sporting some tenderness for the kitchen incident.

Time to be Grounded

I hope all Fathers out there had a good Father's day. I had a great day, a visit from one of my children and phone calls for the two children who are scattered far from me. One on the West Coast and one deep in the heart of Texas. Beautiful Wife "BW" also gave me a nice card and a gift of two new rose bushes even thought I am not her father nor is she the mother of my children.

This morning at breakfast it was noted that I had not contributed anything new to my blog since mid-May and it was suggested that my laziness would be corrected after breakfast. My previous post was on May 17th and as it is now June 18th is has been 32 days since my last post and so she thought that one smack per day per instrument in the "special drawer" would be appropriate. I was soon over her knee with bottom bared in position for re-acquaintance with several paddles and straps. I now know that in the "special drawer" are 17 different implements. So 17X32= 544 smacks. Some were not that hard and some quite hard. As usual I needed it and I feel great with that feeling of a very warm well spanked bottom.

I always appreciate all your comments as those of us in FLRs do understand the total picture.

A figging is in order

Here it is Thursday and beautiful wife "BW" reminded me that perhaps I shown share any interesting weekend experince from last weekend. I did not have any particular plans other than some outside work in gardens. Saturday morning, "BW" got a phone call from Joyce, she is the sister to Janet of the couple Janet and Vince also in the same type of relationship as "BW" and me. We met Joyce several weekends ago. Joyce was going to be in our neck of the woods and asked if "BW" would like to go out to lunch and perhaps hit a few antique stores. "BW" loves antique shopping and said of course she would like to; and off she went while I continued my outdoor work. After finishing the outdoor work I went in the house and watched some local high school baseball on public access TV. "BW" and Joyce arrived shortly after that and "BW" told me that she had invited Joyce to stay for dinner. They had stopped at Bread and Circus (a very nice neighborhood grocery store that specializes in natural foods) and bought groceries. I was dispatched to the car to bring in the groceries, put them away and use them for dinner. We had some nice steaks, veggies to make a nice salad, big potato for baked potatoes, great bread and fruit. There were also a couple of healthy fingers of ginger root. It didn't really connect with me what that was for and I asked "BW". Joyce said "Don't worry about using it for dinner" so I put it aside. " BW" thought that Joyce would enjoy it if I ran upstairs, showered and got into a pretty pair of panties. I did not find that strange since Joyce had been with us for a weekend and she had already seen me in a pair of panties and had given me a spanking. I suspected that I was going to get another one. Upstairs I , showered, shaved, dressed in some pretty frilly panties and went downstairs to prepare dinner. When I got downstairs, both "BW" and Joyce were in the kitchen and they were working with the ginger fingers. It was then that Joyce explained that she was surprised that "BW" had not "figged me" before. I did know that it would sting but generally I do what I am told. Joyce had fashioned from the large ginger finger a large ginger dildo that I must say was perfectly shaped. We have a low counter in part of our kitchen which I was bent over and Joyce pulled down my panties, and "BW" unlocked and removed the chasity device and instructed me to open my legs. I admit that I was embarassed to have my anus on display but I did not have a choice. The "lube" was simply water. Water to wet my anus and water for the ginger dildo and then the telltale pressure. I know the drill as I am regularly pegged. It did not feel too bad as the dildo pushed against my anus waiting for it to open and accept it. And soon the dildo was firmly guided up the anus and into what "BW" refers to as my "pussy" After a short while it did begin to sting which Joyce to her credit said would happen. Soon the cane came out of the closet and Joyce was building up a good tempo on my poor bare bottom. I really got in trouble when I instintively clenched my buttocks and the burn really took hold . Man....it was hot and very unpleasant...I certainly was not a happy boy at that point and my entire "poop chute" and back door was on fire. I did not get too much sympathy and my bare bottom was caned very hard. I don't cry very easily but I was a crying boy following this punishment. Mostly from the burning from the ginger root. Finally, the caning stopped and the dildo removed and I was sent to prepare dinner. Even after the ginger was out, I was still feeling its results and it took a while for the fire up my ass to felt better. I hardly noticed the caning although my bottom was the color of a red tomato. The bizarre thing is that as the fire in the hole calmed down, my member go excited and hardly with a thought in my head I had a roaring hard on. Just like I used to have when I was a teenager trying to get into my girlfriend's pants. I won't bore you with all the details but let's just say "BW" and I excused ourselves quickly to take advantage of it. Multiple orgasm time. Guess the figging does have an up side.

In Service to my Goddess

It was another weekend that went very quickly. Beautiful wife (BW) still has me in chastity after deciding that I could not be trusted not to masturbate. I will say that the chastity does calm me down and keep me focused on BW. We had a very nice day together yesterday. As I had completed all of the housework on Saturday, we had yesterday to relax. We decided to go out to lunch and for that I got into a brand new pair of very silky pink panties and a garter belt and stocking to wear under my slacks that BW thought would look nice. At the restaurant she told me that she would choose and order my lunch. When the waitress came to our table she automatically looked towards me and looked a little surprised when "BW" ordered for both of us including what I was drinking. "BW" wanted to reinforce who is in charge in this relationship. It also is worth noting that while in chastity I have to sit on the toilet to pee as I cannot stand up. BW thinks that even while not in chastity she will require me to sit to pee all the time to keep me focused on my second in command status. I did have to use the restroom once and couldn't help but think if any one might have questions if they were to see under the toilet stall, the clothing that has to come down for me to pee. (But another thought!).

It was a beautiful day and after a nice walk and then she told me that she needed to be satisfied when we got home. I was excited and thought that my member would be released from his prison. That was not the case. At home we both undressed and she positioned her womanhood so that I could worship it and bring to climax with my tongue. Apparently I did a good job. After her release spent a few minutes cuddling, and then she donned her strap on and took me in the position that I am now very familiar with. My member was a little uncomfortable because he couldn't do anything about it as the dildo found a rhythm in and out and probed deeply into my nether parts.

The Sting

There have been two issues in our household lately that I have been having a bit of a problem with. Those issues are masturbation and surfing porn on the internet. The Beautiful Wife (BW) continues her efforts to make me a better person or maybe a better disciplined person and more accountable for my actions. I am constantly learning that "the truth shall set you free" and while I think I am truthful and a good husband these are habits can lead to deceitfulness. The masturbation has been kept in check by the chastity device  firmly locked in place. BW is pleased with the results and I will say that when it is time to pay attention to her the results are obvious. BW has had the theory (and I would say she is correct) that the practice of surfing porn exacerbates the masturbation issue. I guess that is not a complicated concept to understand. With the advent of the internet the opportunity to view porn is made very convenient. I remember as a 14 year old (if I was lucky enough to score a Playboy magazine, hiding it in my room and looking at it in private and with a great deal of pleasure.  However, BW thinks that I am having too much pleasure. We have been following another blog written by an intelligent young lady named Julie, called Strict Julie Spanks. She has installed a software program on her husband's computer. I have commented on the blog, couldn't help but look at a few very nice pictures. Julie told me that they weren't for me to look at and suggested that I would be a good candidate to get the belt. BW agreed and told me that I better watch it and of course this morning I was at the porn again and my luck ran out when I was caught red handed. I am now red assed. She has a leather strap that packs a wallop and it connected several times on my bare bottom this morning. Each implement affects a bare bottom differently. This one stung like a bee. I doing some work on the computer this morning. (No Porn!) and I am having a lot of trouble sitting down.

More Miscellaneous Ramblings

A few weeks has passed since our visitors were with us and life in our household continues on. Beautiful wife (BW) has been busy at work and I have had some time to do some work around the house. I have a list, no I can't call it a "honey-do" list, as it is a list I had better do or "pay the consequences" list. One of my jobs was to build a cart with castors on the bottom with a small cabinet with drawers and also an upright peg board with hooks. This will be used to storage BW's paddles, belts, cane and toys. I finished it yesterday and if I say so myself it turned out very nice. It can be easy tranported to where it is needed, can be put away easily, if we have guests with a gentler constitution than us. It also can be easy retrieved if a husband needs the feel of a paddle on his bottom. BW will experiment with it and perhaps will leave it in a place so that it will be visible at all times and a man might think twice about his behavior. I will let you know if it helps me stay in line. BW continues having fun buying toys through the internet. One new one recently acquired is what is called a "cum along". It is a leather strap the winds in a circle to encircle the man's balls and cock. BW can then cinc it tight and lead the individual to whom the cock is attached to where she wants him to be. So if anyone thinks BW is leading me around by the cock, they would be right. Due to my propensity to masturbate I am in chastity most of the time. Actually that works well as when time comes to use it, it is ready. A few times lately I have not acted as required. I was released to take a shower and I masturbated. The rest of the day I was on my knees with the humbler locked on and I wished I hadn't done that. I have to admit, I would have rather gotten a spanking.