Not so lackluster

I don't know what has happened but I like it. Last night when I got home, there was a note on the kitchen counter with instructions. Now that is not unusual as I usually get home first and usually start dinner. The instructions are usually "heat up the chicken, boil some rice, cook a vegtable and so on. Last night it was, "Your uniform is laid out, be sure you change into it and make dinner for four." Yes, Maam! My uniform was a wrestling outfit-"I have no idea where that came from". A note on it said-don't you dare put underwear on. So into the wresting outfit I got and of course it was a little small and let's just say I filled it up. I was dumbfounded of why dinner for four. That was soon explained when our Connecticut friends (Vince and Janet)arrived. Seems they were in the neighborhood and plans had been made to push my comfort zone limits. Janet was very interested in my wrestling suit especially the fit around my ample bottom.So, being an excellent host I set them up with a few appetizers and a drink and continued in the task of making dinner until beautiful wife arrived home. If I say so myself, it was a pretty good meal. BW set the dining room table for two-herself and Janet. Vince and I got to eat at the kitchen counter. After dinner, Janet said that she and Vince should start to head back to Ct, before they left she gave beautiful wife a house gift. A nice leather paddle. BW was delighted and said we would try it immediately. I was bent over the counter and each side of the bottom of my wresting suit was tucked into my ass crack exposing my naked posterior. I know if sounds silly but the paddle was very smooth and felt very nice as it connected with my bottom. Both beautiful wife and Janet tried it out and I was quite hot when they were done. They wished us a nice holiday and went on their way. It didn't seem fair that Vince escaped a spanking. I spent the remainder of the night in the wrestling suit with an occaisional break to warm up my behind. It was a fun night. This was not punishment but playtime!!!! And not to mention that my bottom was the color of the season.

I have no excuse

Frankly, I have no excuse for being so lazy and not posting lately. As I have mentioned in previous posts both the beautiful wife and I get caught up in the day to day business of life. Working, family, etc.etc. Ok I know, STOP THE EXCUSES! We all know that any relationship has to be worked on constantly to make it work. A FLR is no different. Last evening when I got home I was reminded that I haven't posted to my blog in a long time and I have been, and I quote "lack luster" in the relationship. I thought that spanking was coming in my direction and I know that I would have deserved it but that was not the case. Instead, BW had received a new strap on, a little longer and wider. Yikes, I was in trouble and soon I was in position to be taken. With some careful time, a lot of practiced breathing I was reminded that I am definitely not in charge. Yes, I got the whole thing.

Back in the Saddle Again

Well, here I am, I am back. I haven't posted in a long time due to a lot of family responsibilities this summer. An Uncle of my beautiful wife has been very ill and he lives in a distance state and beautiful wife (BW) is the closest of his living relatives. She has been very close to her Uncle and was also close to her Aunt who died a few years ago and BW wanted to help. There were several times that we did not expect Uncle to survive another day but he has surprised us all and rallied each time. Between her trips two states away or my trips two states away we have not been very active in our life style. and to be honest I have been a bit prickly about it.  I recognized many of the behaviors that was the hallmark of my first marriage, and don't want to repeat. I know who happy I am in a FLR and I need boundaries and structure. This summer we lost that due to our committments. Uncle is now doing much, much better and is a resident at an assisted living facility in the next town. He is a very nice, amenable man and always makes the best of his situation, and he likes his new living arrangement and his health has improved dramatically. It also is a 15 minute drive for BW to go over to visit, say hello, have lunch with him etc. Good for all of us. Well now that things are straightening out I am being brought back to reality and only a week or so ago we had a discussion regarding some of my behavioral issues. Surprisingly, I expected to get a spanking after the discussion but that did not happen. Only made me feel more guilty. This last weekend on Saturday, I was told that we were driving to Connecticut to visit some friends of BW. Turns out the friend was someone she met on-line, her name is Janet, that she has developed a friendship with and also had met in person a few times for lunch or coffee when Janet was in the Boston area, closer to us. Janet and her husband Vince live about a two hour drive from us. Last week it was my understanding that we had been invited for lunch and to meet them. We got to their home, a very nice home in a high tone Town. I mentioned I wondered what he did for a living and BW asked me, why do you think it is what HE does for a living? Oops--that was not cool.  We rang the bell and were greeted by a very nice looking woman about ten years younger than us who was very friendly and asked us to come in. We all met visited for a while and then the subject changed, and to my surprise our life style was being discussed in detail and from the conservation their life style is very similar. It was very surprising and exciting, it was obvious that the girls had shared a lot with each other. BW mentioned to her new friend that I had asked that I wondered what her husband did for a living and how disappointed that she was with me simply assuming that the man was the primary breakwinner. Janet and BW agreed that I needed a reminder to reinforce their point. Janet said I should get acquainted with the spanking bench that they had upstairs. BW said it would be appropriate if Janet spanked me. Wow, I am sure that my face was as red and my bottom would soon be. So without boring you all with the details, soon I was secured over the spanking bench with my bare bottom in the position. She said that since I was a new friend she would only use her "stinger" paddle. Wow, that girl has a good swing. It had been a long time since I had gotten a spanking and this one "hurt like hell". Vince was very quiet during this time and I think tried his best to blend in with the woodwork. After what seemed to me to be a very long time, my bottom was burning hot, it was over and I was allowed to pull up my pants and try to regain a little dignity. I have to tell you I was a hurting pup and I was not very far from tears. I think even the BW was a bit surprised at how hard the spanking was. But then we went out to lunch which of course I would have enjoyed more if I could have sat down more comfortably. I will say the air was cleared. I suspect that even if I had not made that comment I would have received the introduction to Janet's "stinger", glad I could provide a reason with my open mouth insert foot routine. After lunch and back to there house the interest turned to Vincent and his behavior. Janet informed us that she felt that Vince should not get off that light and would BW like to do the honors. BW, to my surprise declined that invitation but in a flash Vince's pants and briefs were at his ankles and he was over Janet's knee. To tell you the truth, I think I got the better deal with the stinger as Janet seems to also pack a good wallop with her hand. We left shortly afterward, BW and Janet still talk frequently and I have been informed that future meetings will most likely take place.

More Evolvement Weekend

What a great weekend we had. I hope all Mothers had a great mothers day. Mistress was served breakfast in bed by her pretty little maid (me) and after that she got ready and went to visit two of her children for the day. We knew that she would be visiting her children for most of the day, Sunday but we did not have other weekend plans. In my earlier post I told how I had gotten a note in the mail giving me some instructions for Friday afternoon. We are pushing limits and it is exciting. Friday the instructions were that when I got home from work, I was to drive into the garage and read the instructions that she posted on the bulletin board. All day Friday I was excited as I went through my day wondering what was going to happen to me when I got home.  I arrived home at my normal 5:45 p.m, fortunately traffic wasn't too bad and so I was on time. The instructions on bulletin board, #1 Close garage door, #2 Go to the bathroom in the garage bathroom, strip off all your clothes and put in the laundry basket next to the bulletin board and go the chaise lounge chair on the porch for further instruction. So far nothing toooo....outrageous, so I did as I was told. It did not appear that she was home as her car was not in the garage. Stripped to my birthday suit I walked through the breezeway and out to the porch ( it is glassed in and heated so I would not have to suffer too badly) to the chaise lounge where the next envelope of instructions was. On the chair was a pair of handcuffs, we have played with them before, and a ball gag. (That was new) I was instructed to affix the ball gag in place and  handcuff myself (they were open) were open and them stand in the corner and wait to be summoned. I was very apprehensive about that especially if I couldn't call out but it was exciting and so as a dutiful sub I did it. Our home is set back from the street and the porch is on the back of the house so the chances that I would be seen were slim but it does make you think. As I was standing there, my excitement was evident in my member and I couldn't help but wonder what would happen if the meter man happened by as they are located immediately on the other side of the glass. Fortunately for me, that didn't happen. After about 25 minutes I heard a car arrive and a door slam and the footsteps of a beautiful mistress arrived. She went into the house without saying anything to me or acknowledging me. Several minutes went by and she came out and directed me come inside where she had a chair (it is called a no-gravity chair) and is an interesting design that lets one sit back in several positions. Over the chair a chain was fastened to my handcuffs and then she added a leg chain on each leg and secured so my legs were spread eagled. I still have the gag in my mouth so I was listening and not talking. I was informed that I was going to get a needed shave and she went to work removing chest hair and public hair both around my balls and cock and my manhole. It had been a while since being shaved and I am now like a little boy with no hair. After shaving I was moved to sit in a plastic tub and she went and got a crock pot with hot wax that she molded over my manhood then flipped me over and opened my ass cheeks and filled up my now a boyhole and crack and let it harden. She took off the cuffs and gag, wrapped me in saran wrap and I felt like a human candle. Somehow I helped make dinner but mostly stood to eat it as the wax and hardened and didn't allow me to sit very well. Mistress said that the wax would help make me smooth especially after the shaving. We had a nice dinner and after clean up, she enjoyed unwrapping the saran wrap and eventually cut me out of the wax and it was a job to pull it off my body and especially out of my boyhole. And now a wonderful mold of my mid section was placed on the counter to admire She was right I was very soft and supple.

It was now 9 pm and since I am an early go to bed person she put me to bed after putting me in a another new toy for her, a chastity belt, now I now what all the measurement work was for, a diaper, plastic frilly pants and short pink nightgown and got tucked in with the instructions that I was not to get out of bed until she said. I was in bed and she came up to the bedroom and read, it didn't take long for me to fall asleep feeling safe and cared for. I slept like a baby and if you must know I didn't get up at all and peed in my diaper.

Saturday morning, she got me up, changed my diaper told me that today I would be diapered. Let me get dressed in my work clothes and I when to work with her at her auto parts stores as she needed a parts devilery driver for the morning. I have done that for her many times but never in chastity and a diaper. Although I didn't have to take many bathroom breaks as all I had to do was let loose in my pants. What a feeling. We got home at 1 pm, got diaper changed, and put in a housedress and got my housework done. I have a lot of work to clean up after the waxing. Then made a great dinner and we watched a movie on TV. I did fuss about having to wear the chastity as I complained it pinched and I was frustrated. That was not the thing to do. She told me to go and fetch the lexon paddle, and small cane and leather strap. Obvisously I knew what was coming. She took off my clothes, took off the diaper but not the chastity, bent me over her knee and went to town on my bare ass. And what a difference it felt like. It hurt like hell. Having my ass shaved and waxing made my ass cheeks supple and the whipping I got was intense. Every now and again I think that I am crazy to allow this to happen but I am so glad that I am in a FLR and I feel safe and loved. But my friends, my ass is still sore and I am still in chastity. Saturday night was put back in diapers, frilly panties and a pretty nightgown. Sunday morning I got up and made my Queen a wonderful breakfast to help her celebrate Mother's Day and to show how much I love her before she went to visit her daughter who does not live too far away. My limits are being tested. Wonder what this week holds, will let you know when I get unlocked.

More Evolvement

I must admit it is very exciting that the atmosphere in our household is so sexually charged this week. I am still getting over my very close encounter with Mistress's strap on. Talk about opening up my world! I received a note (in the mail no less) promising me a horizon expanding weekend. Hmmm.....She apparently has been planning. To my knowledge there were no special plans on the docket but I have been told that there are now and for my schedule is to make room for them. Tomorrow when I get home there will be an envelope on the bulletin board in our garage. After I park my car, I am to read the instructions and comply. I never thought that I would be this age and playing sexy games.

Evolving Continues

I mentioned in my last post about how things are evolving between my beautiful wife and myself and that I am being brought to a higher level in our FLR. I might refer to the beautiful wife in the future as Mistress as indeed that is the direction we are going. We have discussed our path a lot lately. So to keep you up to date, earlier this week the credit card bill came and their was a charge for something I bought that we had not discussed. I don't know if you remember an earlier posting but this was not the first time that happened. It is not really the money, we can afford the charge but the fact that I went ahead and bought something without discussing it with her. Some have people that have heard this story have commented that I secretly wanted to be found out so the I could be punished. Maybe they have something there. But anyway, I got a punishment spanking and after a period of time it was not very pleasant and it ended with me having a bright red bottom that has taken a few days to tone down. In addition Mistress has a renewed interested in her strap on. and yes as you guessed I got pegged this morning. I am the original tight ass but it went home this morning all the way and I received a proper pegging and after some time and patience I was able to accept the strap on penis its entire length. It has been quite a weekend so far. Thanks for letting me vent out my thoughts.

Evolving life style

I have been reminded by the beautiful wife (BW) that I am neglecting my blog and my excuse about being very busy at work does not cut it. To be truthful we both have been occupied with the day to day work scenario. I hope we can break that mold soon. One interesting item that I wanted to share is that the (BW) has been communicating via internet with a woman in Connecticut who is very interested in learning more about a FLR. Seems she and her husband are experimenting with the concept. I have been brought into the conversation to state my feelings and how it is working for us. Of course as you know it works great for us. They are making plans for us to meet. They live about a two hour drive from us. They haven't worked out details yet but BW says I will be expected to explain our lifestyle in full detail. While that does stir certain body parts it also does shake my conservative soul a bit. BW also says that one never knows, I might have my bottom bared and spanked in front of them. Hasn't happened yet, but will keep you informed if it works out or not. I think we are coming to another level.